Why it is so hard to find a decent guy these days? I just need someone who is understanding. Not ultra or super sensitive or overly sensitive. Not a hunk (just an ordinary average joe will do). Not knowing what they want. Not a parasite. Not a money boy. Not materialistic. Why it's so hard to find these kind of guys these days? Do they not exist anymore? I'm just confused.
I began to know two guys lately. But we haven't met in person. Just sms chat and online chat. But what puzzled me is the fact that they seemed to be lovey dovey now and emotional even before we met. They are even jealous and cemburu tak tentu pasal for no apparent reason. Hello,,,, we haven't even met.. What were they thinking? Plus, they said, they are looking for friends. Since when friends can become jealous?
I just don't get these kind of people. I'm not as hot as they are. They can have all the hot guys if they want. I've been telling them the same thing. "You are hot. Why can't you date someone who is just as hot as you?"
Entahlah. I'm just confused right now. I am a man of principles,. I don't do long distance relationship. I won't declare until i know that person well enough. To declare as a couple not even before we meet in person is ridiculous. Utter foolishness. I need to meet the guy in person. Get to know him more in person and not just via sms chat and online chat. I will not take that risk. that's why i made it to clear to whomever on their intention or goal. I always ask them what they are looking for? Sex? Fun? Friend? LTR?
If they are looking for LTR, then i will get to know him and go out on a date etc. I can only declare if both of us feels that we have chemistry.
I'm a kinda straight forward person. At my age now, I don't want to waste my time for emotional roller coaster rides. That will just take my time off. At my age now, time is of essence. So, why it's so hard for me to find a decent, simple, average look guy, with no dramas, etc? Why it's so hard to find these kind of person?
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I used to be like the two of the guys that you're talking about.
Maybe according to my experience, they are not mature enough in terms of real relationship or they are desperate to have a BF. Even good looking people can be lonely. We never knows =]
Cheers,
Haniff
Thanks Hanif. That's what we called reality check. Some people need to be reminded of that. The fact that they are hot is the more reason that we need to remind them. Put aside loneliness. Everyone feels lonely at one point of their life.
xoxo
-Fendi-
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